Occupying the 2nd position on the Chinese
Zodiac, Oxen possess such character traits as dependability, strength
and determination. Oxen are tolerant individuals who believe that the
road to success involves hard work and scrupulous behavior; they don’t
believe in taking shortcuts. They characterize those who don’t work hard
as lazy individuals not worthy of respect.
Oxen are capable of trusting others and
will listen to their opinions with an open mind. However, Oxen prefer
making decisions that are based on their own research. Oxen favor
strong, life-long alliances to casual acquaintances.
Home is where Oxen go to seek comfort,
occasionally watching television or reading. They prefer the rural
outdoors and spend the majority of their “home” time working in the
garden or caring for the yard.
Oxen are strong individuals who overall are
healthy and live long, fulfilled lives. However, they tend to work too
much, rarely allowing themselves enough time to relax. Oxen could
benefit from incorporating more non-work-related activity into their
lives.
Oxen prefer work that is routine. They take
a methodological approach to their tasks and excel in jobs that are
specialized. Oxen possess a keen eye for detail and an admirable work
ethic. They are more productive when allowed to work alone. Good career
choices for oxen include: interior designer, painter, carpenter, quarry
worker, archeologist, horticulturist, mechanic, engineer, draftsman,
banker, broker, real estate agent and army officer.
Oxen aren’t very sociable and rarely
participate in group activities. They abhor small talk and won’t waste
their time flirting. They will search long and hard for the perfect
partner as change makes them uncomfortable. Whether due to an ox’s
tendency to be overbearing or tendency to place blame on others,
relationships with Oxen don’t always work out. When Oxen realize that
partnerships involve two people and two points of view, satisfying
matches are possible.
Metal Ox – Years 1901 and 1961
Like metal, these Oxen are amazingly
strong. They’re extremely hard-working individuals who will do whatever
is necessary to achieve their goals. They’re trustworthy, dependable
individuals who are not likely to show emotion. They have difficulty
interpreting the feelings of others.
Water Ox – Years 1913 and 1973
Water Oxen are much more flexible, and
because of this quality, they’re better able to understand what others
are thinking and feeling. They’re sincere, patient, quick-thinking and
others enjoy being around them.
Wood Ox – Years 1925 and 1985
Wood Oxen work well as part of a team, but
because of their work ethic, self-confidence and strong sense of morals,
they’ll always perform better as the team’s leader. They do have a
tendency to be quick-tempered and outspoken.
Fire Ox – Years 1937 and 1997
Fire Oxen are natural born leaders. In
fact, they’ll often hold positions of importance at work and in the
community. They have short fuses and tend to react impulsively instead
of considering the opinion of others.
Earth Ox – Years 1949 and 2009
Earth Oxen are successful individuals,
probably because they are diligent rather than impulsive. A more modest
approach combined with their reliability and sincerity makes them more
likeable.
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The
Ox
Those
born under the influence of the Ox are fortunate to be stable and persevering.
The typical Ox is a tolerant person with strong character. Not many people
could equal the resolution and fearlessness the Ox exhibits when deciding
to accomplish a task or an objective. As we used this great creature long
ago to plow the soil day after day, so do Ox people labor through their
daily responsibilities either at work or at home without complaint or
gripe. Oxen know they will succeed through hard work and sustained effort
and find no truth or benefit in concocting get-rich-quick schemes.
Years
of the Ox
Ox years are second
in sequence and recur every twelve years. The Chinese New Year does not
fall on a specific date, so it is essential to check the calendar to find
the exact date on which each Ox year actually begins.
THE SIGN OF THE OX
Pragmatic
and down-to-earth, Ox people are motivated to work hard and have no respect
for lazy or careless people. Although they can be easily trusted and find
it easy to put trust in others, they are not dependent on friends and
family and would rather find an answer or a solution themselves than to
ask these people for help or guidance. However, others can, without a
doubt rely on Oxen, who are always honest and meticulous about their responsibilities.
While they do not feel the need for many distant or acquaintance-oriented
friendships, they value the strong bonds they share with their partners
and families, and make close friends that last a lifetime.
Though they are quite
open-minded, once Ox people have made a decision about something, they
rarely change it. This is a defining characteristic that can be seen as
obstinacy, but it is actually the way an Ox learns to be strong, brave
and straightforward. It is the way the Ox learned to take on tasks and
responsibilities and how he learns to be reliable for others. Oxen are
more comfortable with the well-known as opposed to the unfamiliar. Yet,
beneath their unpretentious, tranquil exterior lies a heart of gold and
a motivation to prosper.
OXEN FACTS:
People born in the
Year of the Ox share certain characteristics. The Ox sign is an abbreviated
way of characterizing that individual’s personality. Following are features
associated with the sign of the Ox.
Second in order, Chinese
name—NIU, sign of industry
Hour—1am-2:59am Month—January
Western Counterpart—Capricorn
CHARACTERISTICS
Obstinate, Pouty,
Truthful, Motivated, Friendly, Apathetic, Genuine, Quick-tempered
IN
YOUR ELEMENT
The characteristics
of the Ox sign are tempered by one of the five Chinese elements of Metal,
Water, Wood, Fire and Earth overlaying a 5-year cycle of characteristics
on the original 12-year cycle.
THE METAL OX
1901 AND 1961
Metal Ox people work
harder and more scrupulously than most people, including other Oxen. They
always show a boldness and drive and will stop at nothing to achieve their
goals. Like all Oxen, they are completely trustworthy and dependable,
but they are not ones to display their emotions freely or openly. These
Oxen have the strength of steel, with a will to match. Often, this strength
and ruthless will make it difficult for them to identify with the feelings
of others around them. However, an Ox is always willing to defend what
he knows to be true and won’t give up until he has proven what he knows
to be true.
THE WATER OX
1913 AND 1973
The Water element
gives the Ox a flexibility and liberty. Water Oxen are as hard-working
as anyone, and particularly systematic, and are probably the quickest-thinking
of the other elemental Oxen. They are much more prepared than the other
Oxen to recognize the pints of view of others and to think about their
ideas and suggestions, making them easy to work with in a business environment.
They generally consider the feelings of others which makes them good roommates
or partners. In addition, their sincerity and patience ensures their popularity
with friends, peers and family.
THE WOOD OX
192S AND 1985
Understanding and
fair, these are the least unyielding of the Oxen and the most apt to change
and accept new ideas. A more liberal attitude gives them the ability to
appreciate the value of being a part of a team, and other members of the
team respect the high principles of the Wood Ox. They are particularly
self-confident giving them an air of unspoken authority. This characteristic
means that Wood Oxen are often chosen as leaders or spokespeople. They
also have a shorter fuse than other Ox people, and are more likely to
be outspoken or to stand up in a crowd to be heard. These Oxen are quite
devoted to those they love and make strong and affectionate friends and
relations.
THE FIRE OX
1937 AND 1997
Being born under the
fire sign gives these Oxen dynamic qualities. Their leadership capabilities
are tremendous, and they have to desire to be in charge so they generally
hold positions of status and importance at work and in the community.
They are capable of being extremely objective, but these Oxen can display
hot tempers, throw temper-tantrums or be unusually impulsive in their
decision-making. This can be dangerous because it may cause them to brush
aside valuable ideas, discarding them before actually considering the
implications associated with doing so. Even so, they tend to be loyal
people. Devoutly dedicated to their family.
THE EARTH OX
1949 AND 2009
The most reliable
and diligent Oxen belong to this collection of Oxen. The Earth element
balances many of their negative characteristics. These Oxen are show good
judgement, a good characteristic for successful financial dealings. Other
people tend to look up to Earth Oxen because of their reliability, sincerity
and their modest ambitions. They are willing to tackle the workload when
it become overbearing for others and are loyal and compassionate with
family and friends.
HEALTH
AND HOME
HEALTH
People born under
the sign of the Ox usually have strong codes and work ethics. This can
lead to a tendency to be a workaholic, and they should make an effort
to relax more. Many Oxen work in relatively stationary occupations, and
would benefit from squeezing a little exercise into their routines. They
are prone to bone and joint problems - especially the knees - and must
pay special attention to these areas. However, Ox people are usually strong
and robust, and, according to ancient wisdom, should be blessed with long
lives.
AT HOME WITH
THE OX
The Ox’s home is his
castle, a place where he finds relaxation and peace from the everyday
hustle and bustle of his career or responsibilities. This is where he
spends time with his friends and loved ones. The Ox person doesn’t put
a lot of effort into making his house stylish, for he would much rather
be comfortable while reading the newspaper or watching television. He
doesn’t spend much time indoors anyway—he wants to be outside, smelling
the air, planting gardens and trees, which will usually be evidenced by
the botanical literature you will find on his bookshelf or on his coffee
table. Ox people prefer to live in the country. The Ox generally prefers
to decorate his home with nature’s colors, i.e. golds, greens and oranges.
However, since the Ox is associated with January, winter colors might
be more appealing.
CAREER
AND FINANCE
THE OX ON THE
JOB
Able, ethical and
aware, colleagues of the Ox will marvel at their methodical approach and
will depend on their eyes for detail. Oxen are not phased by routines,
probably because they are so well-organized. They are better-suited for
specialized positions and prefer to work in large companies. They do,
however, work best when they work alone since they can be unhappy when
participating in a large group.
MONEY AND THE
OX
Oxen believe in security,
and thus don’t usually take wild risks or financial gambles. They are
meticulous about spending money and work hard to ensure they will be able
to retire comfortably.
OX CAREERS
Those born in the
Year of the Ox share the same kinds of goals and objectives in life. The
occupations best suited for the Ox are listed below:
OX MAKE EXCELLENT:
Painters
Interior designers
Carpenters
Mechanics
Horticulturists
Engineers
Draftsmen
Architects
Army Officers
Managers
Quarry Workers
Academics
Archeologists
Osteopaths
Physioherapists
Bankers
Investment brokers
Real estate agents
CONGENIAL BUSINESS
PARTNERS
Whether Oxen are compatible
with their business partners depends on whether their signs are harmonious
or antagonistic to those of their business partners. Considering the congruity
of their own characters and the characters of their business partners
can also be very useful.
Rats Ruled By Benefit
From Are Antagonistic to
Metal Earth Roosters
Fire Tigers
Water Metal Rats
Earth Horses
Wood Water Pigs
Metal Sheep
Fire Wood Oxen
Water Dogs
Earth Fire Snakes
Wood Monkeys
Leisurely
activities and pleasures
LIKES AND DISLIKES
The Ox is a lover
of stability, a great traditionalist and a homemaker. Rarely would you
expect an Ox person to be an extrovert pleasure-seeker. They are happiest
in the peace of their own home territory.
Oxen Like:
Color Preference:
Violet
Gems and Stones: Jade,
Emerald, Moss-Agate, Lapis-Lazuli
Suitable Gifts: Kitchen
accessories, gardening and planting books, cookbooks, bonsai trees
Hobbies and Pastimes:
Body-Building, Baking, Gardening, Listening to music, Sewing
Oxen Dislike: Making
small talk, foolish games, feeling insecure
THE OX VACATION
Actually, Oxen are
homebodies, preferring the lure of the sofa or the garden to extravagant
vacations far away from home. They are very happy just staying at home,
spending their summer vacations catching up with the hobbies and pastimes
that their workloads have prevented them from taking on previously. Whether
they are planting flower beds, or enjoying a sunset on their newly-built
front porch, it is all quite satisfying to them. If they do decide to
take a trip, you can bet they’ll head for the hills to do some hiking
or rock climbing.
FRIENDS
AND ENEMIES
Oxen are not the most
sociable people and tend not to mix easily in social gatherings. Instead,
they would rather be at home, enjoying their privacy and anonymity. Unlike
the Rat, the Monkey, or the Rooster, the Oxen tend not to have a little
black book, preferring a few very loyal friends to a large network of
acquaintances. Oxen do know how to shine at social occasions, but more
often than not they dislike small talk. These are wary people, unlikely
to ignite friendships on the spur of the moment. They like to take their
time and get to know people before disclosing themselves fully. A happy,
solid relationship with their partner and children is the most satisfying
goal they could accomplish.
OX PARENTS AND
CHILDREN
Oxen make very protective
parents. People born under this sign will unselfishly work their fingers
to the bone to provide a thriving, happy and secure home where their children
feel safe. In return, however, the Ox mother and father demand that their
youngsters be courteous, respectful and polite. In comparison to other
parents, Oxen can seem a bit authoritarian but they are conventional and
believe in instilling within their children a belief system. A good education
is especially important and by utilizing their educational opportunities,
Oxen children can make their lives and relationships with their parents
a lot easier. Ox parents expect their children to listen, behave and be
attentive while they are at school. Showing rebellion is the fastest way
to be punished in the Oxen household.
Oxen, especially female
Oxen, tend to start their families early on and completely immerse themselves
in caring for and parenting their children. This can lead to dependent
children and can pose a problem for parents who are trying to teach their
children to become self-reliant.
THE OX INFANT
AND CHILD
Children born under
the sign of the Ox are quiet and amenable. They develop into solid, independent,
resourceful children,
and are happiest when left to entertain themselves. If interrupted, provoked
or forced
to do something against
their will, they are likely to pout or show themselves, despite their
audience.
Generally, Ox-born
children are shy, and for many, childhood is quite lonely partly due to
them liking to be
alone and partly because
their siblings are usually much older or younger than they.
At school, subjects
with a constructive appeal will be of the most interest to them. They
like art and music as well. They are creative children who enjoy sports
too. They are respectful, polite, hard-working, children…something their
parents take very seriously.
OXEN PARENT/CHILD
KINSHIPS
Some parents click
immediately with their children and some find they will never have a close
relationship no matter how hard they try to make it happen. Following
are the compatibility ratings between Oxen parents and their children.
Oxen with Under
the same roof Compatibility Rating
Rat noble parent,
respectable child ****
Ox pretty much
equal ***
Tiger not much
understanding *
Rabbit happy
at home ***
Dragon some
problems to sort out **
Snake on similar
planes ***
Horse little
compromise *
Sheep too sensitive *
Monkey a lot
of fun together ****
Rooster solid
relationship ****
Dog not much
interaction *
Pig essentially
harmonious ***
COMPATIBILITY RATINGS:
*uphill struggle **some
complications ***easy bonding ****on the same wavelength
Lovers and spouses
THE OX LOVER
Oxen dislike chit-chat.
They don't have fun at parties and as aforementioned, don’t have a ton
of friends. They are not very sociable and would rather be spending their
time at home with their families. When the Ox is in love, he does not
confirm his feelings verbally, preferring to show you how he feels rather
than tell you. An Ox will take a long time to decide if you are the right
match for him because Oxen hate change, and want to find someone who is
ready to embark upon a stable marriage. Oxen never rush into anything
and are not flirtatious people. Once they have committed to you they will
usually be faithful and expect reciprocation of their honorable actions.
MARRIAGE
Unfortunately, many
Ox marriages do fall apart after a couple of years, possibly because the
Ox is too dominant or inflexible. Perhaps it's because, Oxen tend to place
blame on everyone but themselves. But if an Ox fortunate, and has chosen
wisely, the couple can build and maintain a close-knit family to which
the Ox will completely devote himself.
THE OX LOVE
PARTNER
Oxen are strong, silent,
reliable people who sometimes take for granted that their relationship
is a partnership and that they make not always be the dominant figure.
Other Animals may find them quite stubborn and overbearing. Chinese horoscopes
are very specific about which partnerships have the potential to be successful
in love and in business. Yet, though destiny can point us in the right
direction, we must still make all efforts to maintain loving relationships.
Following is a brief description of how an Ox will affect a relationship
with other Animal signs.
PARTNERS IN
LOVE
Ox*Rat
Really good sex, but
you’ll better serve each other as an affair. Marriage isn’t a good idea.
Ox*Ox
A solid partnership,
but a wee bit boring.
Ox*Tiger
You are completely
drawn to each other but headed for a dead end.
Ox*Rabbit
As lovers you’ll have
a solid, content marriage.
Ox*Dragon
Give-and-take is not
your forte and you are both more stubborn than the other.
Ox*Snake
You are headed for
happiness!
Ox*Horse
Better in business
than in bed.
Ox*Sheep
You may be phyiscally
attracted to each other, but there’s not much substance here.
Ox*Monkey
If you can make it
work, you’re destined for happiness and a lot of fun!
Ox*Rooster
Sexually stimulating,
passionate and spontaneous…this should be a good fit.
Ox*Dog
You probably aren’t
truly comfortable with each other…there’s a reason for that. Not much
in common.
Ox*Pig
Passion and similar
opinions destine you for a successful marriage.
Love Partners at a
Glance
Oxen with Tips
on Togetherness Compatibility
Rat similar
appreciation ***
Ox strong,
but apathetic **
Tiger completely
different attitudes *
Rabbit delicate
and loving ***
Dragon love
at first sight, then stalemate *
Snake Majestic ****
Horse too argumentative *
Sheep No way *
Monkey okay,
but no spark **
Rooster Wonderful ****
Dog Doubtful,
but there’s hope **
Pig worth trying **
COMPATIBILITY
RATINGS:
*dispute **keep
working at it ***intense sexual attraction ****angelic
EAST
MEETS WEST
VIRGO OX
These individuals
are practical but they can lose sight of what’s important and can fuss
over small details. Unmatched in honesty and ethics, they are responsible
and respected.
